Thursday, December 8, 2016

Breastfed Infant Food Allergies Total Elimination Diet: My Own Personal How to

So my third little one, born October 11th, is throwing us for a bit of a loop. We have done the food-allergy-baby thing before, so it's not fully new, but she is WAY more sensitive (or I'm way more aware...). E ended up on Elecare at 8 months old after a bout with Salmonella and some majorly low iron. This time I'm hopefully that I can keep this little one happy and safe and breastfed!

Rewind a few weeks (back to November 19th) and we had night after night of seemingly endless screaming and crying out in pain... and the baby was fussy too! Just kidding. She had terrible reflux symptoms (screaming with a "pain" cry, pulling off the breast constantly to scream out, then latch back on and repeat, spitup- but sometimes "silent reflux" too, had to be UPRIGHT to be somewhat ok) and I had already gone soy and dairy free since October 21st (I knew the drill and her symptoms of fussy-colic we're familiar enough).

It was a weekend and we were at our wits end and she was in PAIN. So our beloved pediatrician allowed us to start her on Prevacid OTC 15mg capsules. They are a PAIN in the butt to get into her- but after 3 days she STOPPED having painful reflux episodes and was a new baby again!

Side Note: We have since found the easiest way to administer the little dots of medication is to cut it open with nail scissors, pour it into a spoon, wet a finger and pick up all the little balls with said finger, then open her mouth up and put it far into the back insider corner of her cheek. Then follow it with some water in a syringe to help her swallow it. She hates it. We hate it, but the results are awesome so it's worth it.

So little recap/New Info:
Stopped Dairy and Soy October 21st.
Stopped Peanut Butter and Tree Nuts November 18th.
Stopped Wheat and Corn November 19th.
Started Prevacid November 19th.
Stopped Eggs November 21st.
TED (Total Elimination Diet) started November 30th.

Symptoms:
Tummy aches
Gas
Straining to poop
Mucus in poop
Blood in poop (though not visible- pediatrician tested and found it- so not a lot)
Spitting up
Reflux (Cried when flat, gags on seemingly nothing, arches back in pain, on and off the breast screaming, etc.)
Rash (looks like infant acne, but comes and goes and spreads to neck, scalp, ears, shoulders, etc.)
Possibly (I'm convinced but it's not diagnosed) eczema

We tried Colic Calm- and at first it helped, but it wasn't enough and it turns stools black, so that made it a no-no when you're trying to check for blood/color of every poo.

After eliminating all of those foods, she would still have days where something I ate would cause the rash to flair and her to be really upset and in pain (tummy) at night, and her poops to return to green/mucus/mess. It was so hard to try and guess what food did it- and my variety of foods was already so limited anyway. THAT'S when I decided to try and elimination diet.

Simple? Nope. For every google search of an elimination diet you'll find a new suggested food list.I'm still not fully convinced about my current list- but it is definitely the BEST she has been, so it's good "enough" for now. GI (I asked for a referral to see GI so that I can get in with the GI nutritionalist- hopefully he can help me sort out my eating too) basically told me to try my best to eat things that don't totally throw her and then switch to Elecare when I can't take it anymore- with a goal of her reaching 3-months-old breastfed... that I wont be able to find out what things are messing with her... I don't like that plan.

Current Elimination Diet:

Probiotic supplement
Prenatal Vitamin
Sweet Potatoes
White Rice
Chicken (with salt and pepper only)
Cooked Green Beans (considered a legume, but usually better tolerated)
Earth Balance Butter (a butter substitute that I'm praying she can handle because... yum).
Cooked Asparagus
White Potatoes
Marshmallows (because I'm weak- but I try not to)

One day I got the bright idea that a black rice would have more protein... That went HORRIBLY. She broke out in a rash and was super fussy, and cue poop issues too. So I researched and found out that apparently white rice is devoid of all the crap that people react to (usually... some people can't even do white rice). Feel free to check it out here- it's kind of interesting.

Another idea was to try loading up on white potatoes because FRENCH FRIES (home made- with no possible contamination) and CHIPS! Well... low and behold she seems to have a body-hatred for what I am now learning are called "night shades." Check it out. But basically Tomatoes, white potatoes, peppers, certain spices, eggplant... I tried purple potatoes because a friend grew them... apparently it's more a Night Shade and NOT a Sweet Potato. Sweet potatoes are NOT night shades and she tolerates them well.

This is an example of how the rash presents (usually lasts for the day- if I can find and cut the offending item, if not, it will worsen and last longer).



If I figure it out, I am rewarded with a happy and fairly clear-skinned child:


Trying to be creative during an elimination diet doesn't always pay off either...
Tried making chicken soup- the broth had potato starch and she was a little pissy about it.
Tried buying rice crackers- they were made with brown rice. whoops.
Tried eating rice pasta. BIG mistake. It had rice and RICE BRAN which is apparently the DEVIL to my daughters' system.
Tried buying (though now I am making my own with this recipe) rice milk. The store bought has brown rice. Killin' me.
Rice Krispie cereal and Chex rice cereal seem to be ok. Not a banner choice- but hey, it has some crunch!

So for now what I am looking for is a three day stretch with NO (or VERY little) rash, mucus poo, pain, etc. so that I know I've hit the base-line-jackpot for elimination. I think we're almost there (stupid purple potato set us back a little). And once we are, my plan is to add foods in one at a time for 3-4 days each to be sure they are ok. If they're not, let her clear up again and try a new food. I do NOT eat out anymore. I make everything at home. It's really not so bad (talk to me in a few more weeks though...).

My next food to try is going to be beef. I'm gonna try and stick with somewhat whole30 friendly/paleo type foods. No sense waisting days trying foods that are more likely to be a problem- that would just means more days with less choices! I've made myself a little chart that I fill out each day- sounds like a lot, but it's on a clipboard on the countertop so it's no big deal. I made a little scale system for her symptoms throughout the day, and write down what I eat- I'll attach the page in case it's helpful. Anyway. Long story not so short: it's going well! This diet is totally my CHOICE. I don't feel forced into it- though I am aware of the price tag on Elecare (OUCH!) and that it constipated the heck out of our son. Truthfully, the way I see it right now is that they're only this little for a VERY short time. In the long run I can eat whatever I want- and probably shouldn't live that way anyway :) I'm trying to be very positive and deciding that this is an opportunity for food to be put in it's place and take it off the "throne" (God help me!).


Wednesday, January 7, 2015

Easy DIY Stool $5 each!

New tools + Ana White free plans + $5 worth of wood = perfect (inexpensive) bar stool!!! 

I used a mitre saw (5 degree angle and 5 degree bevel cuts on the legs) a Kreg Jig and a clamp (to hide the screws), and my drill. That's it as far as tools go! I hand sanded with no problem.

I needed a 24" stool for our countertop dining space (my kids use 29" stools but our legs are too big as adults). 

So excited about the sucess of this project. As my first real furniture build it took me hours--- but I can tell future stools will be much quicker!

Check it out: 
Follow this link to the plans: http://ana-white.com/2011/01/simplest-stool.html

Best. Rug. Cleaner. Ever!

Straight alcohol in a spray bottle. That's it! So cheap! Saturate well and then scrub with a towel. Dries super fast! Light colored towels are more fun to use, because then you can really see how much dirt pulled up! Vacuum when done. Check out the before and after! 


Changing Our Grout Color: dark to light!

This project was easy, but time consuming! Well worth it we feel. You use a toothbrush and rub in the stain color (after you use this cleaner) 
So you have cleaned the grout thoroughly with a scrub brush, let it dry allllll the way. Thennnn scrub in the stain colorant. We used this and are VERY satisfied. It also has a built in sealant so that was very helpful! 
As you go along, line by line, you are also quickly wiping away excess color and parts that get on the tile with a paper towel. THIS IS VERY SLOW WORK. My neck was sore that evening from being down on the floor focusing on the details. Butttt here are the before and after pictures and again it was totally worth it! 
BEFORE:
AFTER:

Monday, December 29, 2014

Grout Stain Success!

We really didn't love the grout that (though it looks like a solid color in this photo because it's wet with Krud Kutter (step 1 of this process) but we actually weren't sure what color the grout originally was? It was dark but had cloudy white and gray places too- it only looked good... Er... decent- when wet.


So after reading reviews and directions we headed over to Home Depot for some of this good stuff: 
After using the degreaser and allowing for hours of dry time, we simply brushed on the paint/stain onto the grout lines with a small toothbrush and then used a napkin to wipe any mistakes off the tile. We allowed it to dry for a full 72 hours before letting it get wet and so far so good! We are very pleased! 
So we decided not to replace the tile after all! I like it! What do you think? 


Tuesday, December 9, 2014

Moving Our Swingset

Moving our swingset from the old house to the new house may be the death of me... Or my marriage... Or both. We went for round 1 today and got quite a bit done--- but there is still the disassembly of the main "two story house" structure into manageable, movable pieces. If our chain link fence didn't have such a small gate I would be less frightened by the whole prospect... But that isn't the case... Sooooo I'm following online advice and hoping for the best. 

I took pictures of every step and labeled baggies of parts accordingly! Hope this goes alright! 






You get the idea... Pray for us! 


Dumpster Dive: Operation Window to Coat Rack Complete

Well- I love it! I'm so glad I drove over to the house that posted "free old fashioned windows on the curb" to Facebook! Here is what I did: 

Sanded, cleaned, painted blue and then, with a paper towel, smeared some white on top. Then I sanded again  to distress it a bit. 


I attached my (half off) $8 worth of hooks from Hobby Lobby and things were getting good! 


Finally I hung it with picture frame hangers on anchored screws and voila!! 


I'm totally in love! I may go back and put some vinyl lettering or photographs or chalk board paint on it- but for now I love it plain! Woohoo!

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Dumpster Dive for Windows!

Check out this awesome find! I'll be working on these as soon as I can! 

2014! Hello again!


In the time since I last posted we've moved and changed in almost every way. We go to a new, small, church (St. Andrews) and we love it. We bought a new home down the street from our best friends and family. And both kids can eat whatever they want: NO MORE ALLERGIES! 

I had my appendix taken out. We made a few trips to South Florida and Tally. We have been back for the annual beach trip twice. North Carolina (we did that twice). My sister turned 40 so we all ran her first 5k! We've cruised, done Disney a few times and we got a new puppy! Can't complain. Don't want to anyway! 













Life Hacks! Keep toddlers from climbing ladders!

Our friends have an amazing (super-high) new tree house. So obviously there is no where else my two year old would rather be! Disaster waiting to happen until... 



Go Vegan! 4-29-13

Feeling so good since making the change to a vegan and sugarless diet! Don't seem to get sick-- or stay sick if I do, no more coughing in my sleep, energy level through the roof, dropping weight like its ma' job and really enjoying my days! 

Made a sandbox on a whim- love it! Been working on the back yard a lot-- very soothing and satisfying. Did you know lemon grass repels Mosquitos? 

The boys are doing awesome. Evan is huge and says "mommy" now, and is half way up the rock wall at the moment (little monkey!). Aaron is all over the place and still cracks me up regularly. 

We got to spend some time in Orlando again with my mom while Joey was away for work. Sea world, Nickelodeon hotel and shopping. It was a lot of fun.

GRU came and gave half a yard an amazing makeover because they dug it up in order to fix an underground pipe- totally worth it! What a blessing that whole thing was. From having "mighty machines" around to entertain the kids to the turf, bushes, and new fence. 

Better get back to the life unfolding in front of my face here--- so blessed. 


Orlando is where it's at! 3-27-13

I The kids and I just got home from our first solo-trip. I think this is one of the biggest times I have been hit with the revelation that not-being-pregnant-or-breastfeeding is a big deal! I had the energy to take care of both kids, enjoy Sea World, drive to and from Orlando, visit with my dear friend Sarah, and still sneak out that night for some dessert without the kids (thank you Kris!). I am so glad I was brave enough to go. The kids loved Sea World (surprise, right?), and I love watching them have a great time. Joey is in Atlanta for work and though we always have more fun with him, it was nice to see that I could handle a theme park with two toddler-ish-aged kids alone.

Good Mornings 1-24-13

I look at these two little boys. Not even so little anymore. But certainly smaller than they will be most of their lives (God willing).

They are learning to play together. Their paths collide and they interact and they are less and less living side by side than they are living together.

I never lived with a sibling for very long. I was essentially an only child growing up. I have no experience to relate to what it is like to have this kind of a relationship. It is such an honor to watch it unfold. That I was given the gift of two perfect boys to help raise is something I could never express enough gratitude for. It is a good morning indeed.

Thursday, January 24, 2013

The Year 2012 At A Glance

For the sake of a reasonably full Blog Printing... and in light of the fact that this year was a little nutty and didn't leave much time for prioritizing a blog... Here are some pictures to wrap up the year and glance back over 2012!

Happy New Year!

 

I remember this belly... Doesn't feel like it was only a year ago. 

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I love Aaron in this hat because he looks like a little "Neil Caffrey" 

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Unbelievable but I didn't even post about Aaron's 2nd Birthday Party last year. 

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Papa Steve's first time holding Evan 

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When they were born they looked identical! 

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We spend a lot of those first few weeks in the backyard. 

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I love this picture of Evan in Joey's hands at St. Andrews during a Generational Eucharist Service. 

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Titi Shelle was such a big part of Evan's life from the day he was born. She reminded me to swaddle him... something I stupidly thought he didn't like ;0) 

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Summer 2012 Aaron could jump in off the diving board at Karon's home and swim out to a person or even to the ladder. He's a fish! He LOVES to swim. 

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Aaron had to do a sleep study. Joey brought him because I needed to stay home with Evan. 

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We also finished out our last year of co-leading the Myer-Jones Small Group at First Assembly this year. 

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And got to take a trip to Orlando with our Season Pass to Sea World where Aaron could "Sea that World" as he called it. 

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An end of an Era. This is one of the last times the four of us would be together. Now Danielle lives in another state and has a new baby boy, Tucker. 

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The best vacation ever was our beach trip to St. Augustine with the Marquis family. We can't wait to go back! 

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We managed to fit in a Myer vacation to Jacksonville where we explored the zoo. Later in the year Lion Country Safari and Palm Beach Gardens were also on the itinerary. 

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Aaron had to have his tonsils and adenoids removed in August. He was a trooper and came away from it all LOVING the hospital where you get popsicles. 

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Some of the Myer-Jones Small Group kids by the end of the year. 

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After Aaron healed from his surgery, Evan contracted Salmonella which alerted us to his critically low iron. He spent a few nights in the hospital (we tried to leave and go to Carlos' graduation but ended up back in the ER and then re-admitted). I had to stop breastfeeding and he was put on EleCare fomula. 

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Such a good eater- this boy LOVED his first taste of spinach! 

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Aaron is a good big brother. I am so proud and impressed with him. 

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Potty training=Tattoos just like Tio. 

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No one believes me but there is NO PRODUCT in this kids hair! It was awesome! 

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October brought Baby Brielle into the Leightman home. It was an honor to watch Rachel bring her into the world. What a blessing she is! 

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This year for Christmas Aaron really understood the concept of a birthday. So we celebrated the birth of our savior the way all 2-year-olds require: with cake. It was a beautiful Christmas. 

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Lilypie Second Birthday tickers

Lilypie Second Birthday tickers